Perihal Ar-Rayyan ku

Hari ini genap usia anak bujang kesayangan 1 tahun 6 bulan. Sekejap masa berlalu, baby yang dulu perlu di dukung, kini mampu berjalan sendiri, mampu suap makan sendiri. Bila melihat perkembangan anak, rasa macam tak percaya myself dah bergelar ibu. Everything was so fast!

Milestone Ar-Rayyan setakat ni terlalu banyak, since dah lama  tak update about him. First of all, he's now tengah aktif bercakap. Everything that he see, he will ask. Cara bertanya adalah dengan menunjuk ke arah benda tu. Nak lagi kalau dalam kereta, untuk tak menghampakan anak, seboleh bolehnya saya cuba menjawab. But sometimes getting annoyed jugak HAHAHA mamanye pemalas nak jawab soklan yg sama berulang2, thats the problem.

Like we know, baby or toddler are like sponge. They are very absorbent, apa yang kita cakap, yang kita buat itulah yang diaorang tiru. Nak marah tak boleh sebab they dont understand at all. And teringat plak kesah yang kawan saya Dina shared di UB, about 4 years old kid doing adult thingy.. Bila baca tu rasa speechless, budak 4 tahun doing that thing. Bila tanya, she just replied that was main main and dah selalu buat. WTH???? This thing is very serious for me, for the sake of young generation, I think parents, community need to work out together to solve masalah akhlak ni. Budak 4 tahun tak di ajar apa benda yang salah, and apa benda yang betul. Sangat kesian. I dont put a blame on that kid. Maybe dia belajar when accidently tertengok video di internet ke. We all know very well, internet tanpa batasan kalau salahguna it can be harm for us. Everything just in one click. Or maybe jugak di TV. Rancangan TV sekarang pun boleh tahan hebat. Kids tak tahu mana salah and mana betul. We are the one responsible to explain to them all that. Thats our challenge as parents in global ICT era. T_______T Big challenge kan? Lagi besar dari wawasan 2020 ni. So good luck mommies and daddies out there, and good luck to me too. 

Dah melalut. Next milestone Ar-Rayyan, dah pandai sebut few words like 

CAR, 

kop=helikopter, 

nai= azan (tang mana yg bunyi sama ntah la), 

pah=opah, 

mama, 

papa, 

kal=basikal, 

yi=lori, 

kat=cat,

book=book

pin=upin ipin

pish=fish

and  banyak lagi to list out. Huehuehuehue... But bila dah pandai cakap ni, kita kene rajen la plak melayan kan. Kang kalau kat TV nampak CAR, dah terjerit jerit, "mamaaaa....car!" selagi kita tak respon selagi tu la akan bergema jeritan CAR tu... HAHAHA but that moment sangat sweet for me. 

Rayyan jugak sudah pandai kira from 1 to 5... Alhamdulillah. Cepat anak mama belajar. Yang ni pun saya tidak la mengajar secara formal. But what I do is, everytime naik stair, I will count together with him. Everyday. Eventually, he manage to learn it from the stair counting activity. Saya rasa tooddler lebih mudah penerima pembelajaran dalam gaya yang lebih santai and unformal. We can teach him thing around bila shopping for groceries. Sambil tolak dalam troller tu, boleh la ajar that is egg, that is milk, vege, tomato, epal..bla bla bla... Cuba try. Mesti anak cepat absorb, sebab ianya aktiviti fun doing together. Sape yang tak suka aktiviti yang fun, betol tak?

Rayyan Sangat obses dengan Upin dan Ipin. Yang ni betol betol bikin mama pening. Everyday nak tengok Upin Ipin, tak dapat tengok DVD, dia minta nak tengok kat PC papa, tak dapat PC papa, nak tengok via tab mama. See? Budak belum 2 tahun dah expose to those technology? We just cant rid off the technology out of our house. But we can monitor and control, betol tak? So use our right as parent wisely. And yang paling mengejutkan, Rayyan hafal sume watak dalam Upin Ipin, tunjuk je gambar, sure Rayyan boleh jawab sape kah itu.. Mengurut dada mama sekejap bila tengok kebijaksanaan anaknye dalam mengenali watak Upin Ipin dan rakan rakan. Minta minta Rayyan boleh la menghafal surah2 dalam Al Quran dengan semudah itu jugak. Amin.

Nak update lagi, but masa mencemburui la HAHAHAHA. Kasik can la tengok gamba latest anak bujang ku.

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